Blessed Gift better have no "price" tag

Those were the days our father brought home the bacon, gave us the education & provided us an environment for success.

These days, I am glad that parenting go beyond what our parents had shown us; especially in the new world of uncertainty and job market competition.

We cover our children with insurance, topup their CPF, ... best parenting plan for them...

As I am reading the WORD, "price" and "prize" came to me.

Let our gifts to our children be a prize to them; and not be a price they have to pay.

Then how do we tell if it's prize or price？ Simple.  Does this gift bring warmth, love and bonding? or tear family apart ?

Make it a blessing; not a burden to them.

Remember, Wealth Whisper; just don't tempt the evil ones.

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